Thanks jonheld - I'll take a look at the relay the next time I'm out there and see if I can decipher the pin out diagram, that would really help.
Phildoh - those photos of the fuseable links are very helpful, I'll put them on my list of items to replace, but I am getting good voltage from the battery to most of the places I've checked (all 3 fuseable links are ok).
My next steps will be to take more readings on the EFI plug and to look at the relay to see if it's got a pin-out diagram. Probably won't get out there for a month :-(
In the meantime here are some diagrams to show my confusion about the difference between the diagram and my EFI plug:
Appreciate the help.
Did you ever resolve the problem? What was your solution?