And that's not a good thing. Maybe you are speaking hyperbole, but the ARB is purposefully designed to absorb and keep that damage from the vehicle.
@gimme a 60
I've have had 3 ARB front bumpers and they have all been great. The oldest one is still going strong on my BJ74, and it was installed at the dealer by all accounts I can find in 1990 in Australia.
I've hit a deer at 70 in the ARB on one of my 80 series and only cracked an offroad light. Also wheeled the heck out of that rig hitting and knocking it on rocks and never any issues.
Great bumpers, classic. Made for the cruisers. Maybe not the most sleek or highest clearance but you really can't go wrong with one, and you can easily sell it and get most your money back if you decide to change later on.
EDIT to say Trail Taylors bumpers look great and I have zero experience with that bumper or any idea on crash testing/design etc of that setup. I'm not knocking there bumpers or offerings at all.