Ha ha. What's a manual??

To answer your questions:
- yes, CC is a slow process by nature and you just have to let it do it's thing.
- yes, I played with the speed of CC up and down and could tell it was moving quicker / slower based on the God awful noises it was making.

- I played around with the center diff lock turning it on and off. Couldn't really tell what / if it did anything (I'm sure it did) but I have never had a vehicle with this option before (my LX did not have a center diff lock button) so I need to figure out when is the right / wrong time to have that locked.
- Manual? See my first comment.