I do know the 6bt is a lot more motor than any of the stock OEM diesels and I'm hoping a 4bt isn't as hard on parts.
How hard the 4BT is on parts depends on two things:
1. Power output of the motor ( how built it is )
2. Your personal driving style
However, I think the big problem you're going to see with the H55 is that it doesn't have enough overdrive. The 4BT is most efficient, and makes peak torque, around 1800 RPM, so that's where you want to be at highway cruising speed ( if you drive on the highway ). For crawling, the NV4500HD is the obvious choice, with more aftermarket GRB support and a lower first gear ratio.
I'm really happy with my NV4500HD and Dana 300 combo. Even though the D300 is center output, I'm running it with a FZJ80 rear axle, and have been for 4 months now, with 0 issues and 0 vibes. The only adapter I have to use is to mount the D300 to the stock Dodge 4WD output housing of the NV4500HD, but it's just a clocking ring, not a whole assembly with bearings that can fail.
You can see the adapter below. It's the shiny aluminum bit between the D300 case and the NV4500HD output housing.