I can tell you that the transmission oil pan drain threads are very delicate and soft (2001 4 speed) . I did 15lb with a good torque wrench and I felt the threads start to let go. I remove the bolt, and a brand new bolt would not spin in easily. I dropped the pan, cleaned up the threads with a tap, then carefully torqued to about 12 pounds. So far no leaks in six months. I have a feeling the threads were already in delicate condition from the previous owner.
Yep! That's why I advocate NOT using a torque wrench or any other long handled tool where you gain leverage. IF the torque wrench is not accurate....you can damage the threads. Just use a standard length ratchet (3/8") or even a box end wrench. You'll be able to tell by 'feel' when the bolt is tight enough.
I’m kind of nervous about the next time I drain the fluid, because rather than flush the whole transmission every 60k miles or so, my strategy is to drain the pan every other oil change. I hope the threads are in good enough shape to hold up.
I change the transmission fluid (drain and fill) in my LX and 80 series fairly often (about every 10-12K miles) and both bolts will tighten up plenty with no hint of slipping. Use a new bolt gasket each time.