Or else use a true three wire element 
It's been a while since I did this..... and I *think* this is right (you could test with a cheapo 1157 housing/bulb on the bench if you have one)....
30 = Positive wire originally headed to running light (now source of + signal for running lights)
87a = Positive wire headed to actual running light
85 = Positive wire tapped into turn signal wire
86 = Ground
I'm trying to remember - but what this effectively does is allow the "turn on" to be normal for running lights - and when you hit the blinker, it uses the relay to cut power to the light (and when the flasher kicks off, the relay would then kick back on... effectively acting as a blinker).
However... something in my brain is telling me this would only work so long as the running lights are on..... (hence why I'm thinking a bench test might help)