So an update...I was gone for 2 weeks on vacation, new WG actuator arrived a couple days before but no time to install until this past weekend.
I wasn't able to get at the circlip holding the arm to the flapper with the turbo in the truck, so the whole manifold and turbo came back out. New WG actuator installed, put it all back together. Didn't get the actuator adjustment correct, with the MBC removed it's only set to 12psi, so that sucks. The noise is better, sounds like it's not leaking at idle and low throttle, but still slow to build boost, doesn't hold expected boost levels, etc.
I'm going to try shimming the actuator away from the turbo body this evening, and see if there's any improvement. If yes I'll pull the whole mess again and get the WG set properly. If not, the next step will probably be to put the stock turbo back in and make sure the issue isn't something unrelated to the new turbo.
It's about a 7hr job to R&R the turbo/manifold, I've done the job 2.8 times at this point.