Sorry about your injuries and thank you for your service. I did something similar to @Pascoscout for supporting the bumper wings. My daughter has my truck or else I'd go look but I "think" there might be some bolt holes further forward of the rear cross member that you could mount diagonal braces to for the receiver hitch. I think that's how the Slee receiver hitch does it. Reversing the direction of the angles like that puts them in compression in a sudden stop vs tension like you were looking at doing. I don't know how heavy a trailer you want to tow but just the logic in my head as far as how to beef it up. Certainly not saying it won't work as that's what Pascoscout is using and has been fine.
Here's a pic of mine before I put the recover points on or switched it to the new swingout hinges. Just for reference on how I did the sides.
Here's a pic of mine before I put the recover points on or switched it to the new swingout hinges. Just for reference on how I did the sides.