I made the mistake of showing my wife the Black Bear Pass video with the the German woman freaking out. What was humorous to me was not funny to my wife. She’s never been on a serious trail ever and is a flat lander, as am I. so the images of the vertical exposed is wigging her out. then she saw the link to the vid of the jeep rolling down the side and, well, let’s just say that didn’t help matters.
There was never any plan to take her along for Black Bear. I knew that would be to much for her. But what I didn’t understand is that now she thinks I’m going to die on this trail and star in the next BBP YouTube video.
I’m trying to convince her that this is not a completely reckless thing to do. Yes, there is some element danger and risk and doing it is not as safe not doing it but 1000s of vehicles have done this since the 1960s without people dying. I doubt there are numbers on BBP accidents but my guess that the fatality rate is less than I70 to Denver from KC or at least better than general vehicle traffic fatality rates.
I will say that I expect myself to have a high degree of pucker with some of the exposure. I am also pretty new to real wheeling. Last years LCDC was my first event and I loved it. Doing the runs with a group of other 200s was a great way to learn and seeing exactly what the truck in front of me did gave me confidence that yes, my 200 will fit through there or can make the turn or whatever. While the exposure will be unnerving, I don’t see the switch backs as really technically difficult. While I have not wheeled like this for years, I’m pretty confident there isn’t anything on BBP I can’t handle. Am I letting my “want to” cloud my judgement?
Any ideas on how to convince my wife that this isn’t just a reckless and crazy thing to do? The challenge here is that emotion trumps rational logic every time.