Status update: problem appears to be resolved
~100 miles of highway and local driving, and the sway bar is level! Woo!
Been a while. Work has been crazy. Between the Dawgs and GCP, I have not had much weekend time. So the poor GX has been driving around with the front sway bar at a horrible angle.
Fixed it this weekend! I repaired the sway bar itself. The passenger side rubber bushing collar had come loose from the sway bar. This allowed a lot of extra play.
Pulled the rubber collar off, and sanded down that area. Also sanded down some other parts of the sway bar where the paint had been worn down (mostly where all the bushings rub. Used some amazing goop along with new stainless steel cable ties to re-attach the bushing collar. The cable ties came with a nice little hand tool to really tighten them down, and then cut the excess. The new cable tie looks to be the exact same size and type as the oem one on the other side.
Let this cure indoors for 72 hours, then touched up the bare steel with some flat black enamel, left over from spraying my sliders.
Went ahead and installed the treaty oak spacer kit front and rear. I’d been hesitant to do so because I knew it wouldn’t clear my factory skid plates.
Well, the combined fixes seem to have worked beautifully. Last time, without the spacers, the sway bar shifted off kilter immediately after driving - as in, I backed up 15 feet and it was off angle.
This time it seems to have solved everything. Drove 80 or so miles home to ATL and about 10 miles around the pothole riddled streets, and the bar is dead-on level. Figure if it hasn’t slipped by now, it won’t.
I did not crack the kdss shutter valves. Was nervous about messing with them and possibly creating a more expensive repair. Already had the front sway bar off for some tlc. Didn’t seem to make the install more difficult or less effective.
Huge thanks to everyone who offered input and advice in this thread!
Downsides to the spacers
This is super nit picky because they work absolutely as intended, but…
1) had to get new hardware to mount factory skid plates, and cut a bit with the angle grinder. This isn’t a knock on treaty oak at all - an annoyance of kdss. Just some extra time and expense to the install. Worried how they work with aftermarket skids.
2) spare tire seems to fit tighter in the back than it did before. Maybe because the swaybar sits a bit lower? Equally likely it fit this tightly before, and I’m just misremembering.