<dick hat on> Atticus, those deaths in Alabama I attribute to Natural Selection. <dick hat off>
First time I was convinced that I did something wrong. Trail/path was clear, straight, flat, no ruts, no people, no vehicles. I took "the risk" the second time knowing my surroundings and being convinced it was my own actions on the first attempt. Second attempt was to verify and/or correct. It wasn't an ego thing at all. I needed to know what my error was so that I would not repeat the same actions next time.
So from here lets see if we can solve the issue at hand instead of being scolded by Uncle Touchy about why I'm a bad father![]()
I'm not scolding you. I'm just offering you some of my experience.
That's pretty callous to refer to the deaths of family members and friends as natural selection. I would attribute it more to accidents that happened because people failed to properly analyze safety issues, or not being as aware of their environment as they maybe should because of false comfort levels, or bad luck. You don't have to be stupid to make one stupid decision that has a bad result. It is ironic, to me, that you had a warning that what you were doing was dangerous, and yet you did it again. If you had been hurt or killed, do you think I would have called it natural selection? Do you think I would have reprimanded you for hurting or killing your child, or rubbed it in? The answer is no. I've seen accidents occur to good, smart people.
If you want to lash out about it, that's up to you. All I can tell you is what I've experienced. If you want to learn your own lessons the hard way, be my guest. I hope that you learn them without paying a serious price, though.