Why did you have to replace the manifold gasket three times? And are you talking about the intake manifold gasket? I am getting ready to replace the egr pipe with the SOR pipe and a Remflex gasket, replace the exhaust pipe flange gasket, and possibly take it down to the manifold and replace the intake and exhaust manifold gaskets with remflex gaskets. So any advice you have to help me avoid doing this twice would be a huge help. It sounds like a lot of this is just part of being an fj60 owner and I will most likely have to do this stuff again at some point, but any advice you have would be a huge help. Thanks a lot!
LT
Use the proper locking exhaust fasteners and new studs, if possible. These upgraded studs/stover nuts are perfect as they allow you to tighten the studs without a double nut and can be installed after the pipe is up against the manifold, but you need the proper female (E) torx socket.
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