I used Stage8 locks from the start. I've never blown a header-to-head gasket with these headers. I did retorque the bolts after a few temp cycles. The bolts don't back out with Stage8 locks but the gasket will collapse slightly causing it to blow out if its left like this without re-tightening the bolts. On some bolts, I was able to get 1/4 to 1/2 turn after a few temp cycles.
I would probably buy the Split Locks instead of the Stage8. Split Locks are fairly new and were not available when I installed mine. The Split Locks looks like they are less "fiddily" to install over the Stage8s.
The only advantage of the Tight Tubes over the regular block huggers is the flat collector design of the Tight Tubes. It will provide a little more clearance just above the collector. I don't know the exact about and it probably depends on which one you are comparing it to, but I'd think in the range of 1 to 1.5 inches.