teach your wife to drive a stick 
then you can take the other 100 hours that you were going to spend doing the tranny swap and spend with the family
bk
Amen. Most times a woman is thinking of a manual transmission, she's letting her mind talk her out of it, not practical experience.
Ask a woman (they are few) that's learned. They LOVE them.
Don't get me wrong though, it'd be like driving a Pete and having to use the clutch, in a 45
Other than that, Jeez-US, how the hell do we do it?

Poor us, having to shift gears all the time
From what I have read a 2F with an A440F should be better than a 3F perhaps like a 3FE?
No direct experience, just thinking about what I have read.
The only difference I know of between a 2f and 3f is stroke and EFI.
IME, EFI motors last longer, and have better cylinder walls than carb motors tore down at the same mileage. And EFI's have more power, reliability, are easier to maintain, and get better MPG.
I'm sorry, I just get so worked up when y'all make the two sound like completely different motors. Like swapping the two will add another 50 horse power....
It's not like that. The 2F block will produce more power down low in the rev band, versus its DE-stroked counterpart, the 3Fe, which will deliver its peak at a higher RPM. And the 3Fe's head will fit on a 2F block ("2F-e"). So, if you wire it for EFI, (since you're talking about an abomination anyway) you'll get the best of both worlds and the best base as far as a Toyota only, gas, drivetrain.
How about swapping the entire FJ62 drivetrain in? So fuel injection and the auto.
I miss my old 62. Not terribly fast but fast enough. The fuel injected motor was nice in the middle of winter.
Then you'd get a De-stroked motor...in a Brinks truck. But you're on the right track.
EFI on 3FE would be nice but mean more work for the wiring/computer conections... if I went beyond just a auto tranny I'd have to consider a later fj80 engine, small block 350, or even a turbo H diesel. Might be worth it though because it would be all for my honey (at least until she goes to the next vehicle and I got the troopy back
I'm still wondering how much of a degradation I would see/feel simply by going from the H41 to an A440F... same engine, same vehicle weight, same t/c gearing (not that I'm worried about low), etc. Can't be THAT big a difference in seat of the pants power can it?? Anyone with direct experience going from an H4x to an A440F with the same engine??
I'd look a wiring harness and its integration before I went that far. I have a junk 92, Fj80 and its harness looks EASY to integrate into something else....
I'm thinking a Fj40 firewall....I want to put an Aqualu 45 cab on it, but the lotto gods, do not smile for thee
I can't imagine there would be much difference between the two trannys.
AT's suck the life outta motors. ESPECIALLY the A440. And ESPECIALLY behind motors that don't put out a lot of power to start with. IMO, none of the F motors were designed to have autos behind them. I'll wager that was initiated for the american market....."can I get fries with that?"...
