"And this is what I had in the works when my daughter came up to say there was a big box in the driveway:
(have not read through after SharpeCat's #554 yet)
First off, no offense meant to anyone and I don't want to be dismissive or overly short/terse BUT I am not going to accidentally make this conversation the focus of my weekend -

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None taken, i do appreciate you taking the time to share your experience and thoughts.
"SharpeCat I think you are quite wrong on several points -maybe most points."
You have to be more specific, but i am in no rush though and do not want to interrupt your weekend plans. If i am wrong i do want to know and i will change. However, after reading your post i am not sure what point you are making about me being wrong on most points. Am i wrong to say he is being unreasonable by jumping to conclusions and not looking for a solution that is more fair to both sides?
"There are several vantage points from which to consider the issue at hand."
As the coordinator of a "group buy" your particular position is the most unusual and therefore, quite simply, least relevant to most people.
The shipper determines the method and details of shipping (or options to be selected by the buyer) and is responsible for the product being delivered to the buyer in the appropriate/described condition. This includes consideration of the need/desirability/amount of insurance through the shipper - based on the seller's knowledge and tolerance for the risks involved.
The shipper initiates any claim with UPS - with or without the participation of the recipient, with or without benefit to the recipient. This is out of the hands of the buyer."
I never argued this, in fact i said that it takes time to do this and that he needs to wait and talk to them to get a more "fair" refund if he thinks 30 is unfair. For the shipper to file a claim they need documentation to show the extent of the damage. My whole point is that its not reasonable to jump to conclusion and judge the whole process as "unacceptable" because he didn't like the first offer (Which i'm guessing is made based on information he provided them), and that instead of jumping to conclusion and initiating a claim with paypal, he could've just as easily explained to them why he thinks 30 is unfair. The issue isn't whether or not ICECO should file a claim with shipping, or that shipping should ultimately pay for this, the issue is how do we best handle this in a way that is fair to everyone. To do that we need to properly assess the damage and communicate that to ICECO, and we can't do that by jumping to conclusions and labeling their Service as "unacceptable" and initiating paypal claim after 1 email response from them with an offer.
"For all appearances the vast majority of people participating in this and the previous buys have gotten the agreed product, in appropriate condition, for the agreed (very attractive) price. THIS IN NO WAY invalidates the concerns/claims of those having a different experience."
I never said it invalidates the concerns of those who run into "hiccups", but i have said that previous members who ran into hiccups were more reasonable in giving ICECO a proper chance to fix things before jumping to conclusions.
"Some of the damage people have shown is in fact minimal and what many would find at least understandable and acceptable ~perhaps not worth reporting and well compensated for (IMO) via a small refund, replacement part, t-shirt, or just an apology.
Other photos show damage that is absolutely in the "We will make this right with a call-tag for return-shipping and a replacement unit or full refund. We are terribly sorry for the inconvenience - Please let us know your preference and it will be taken care of right away" category."
I honestly have not seen a picture that is absolutely in the latter category, as all we have seen so far is minor aesthetic damages, with
@rsemidwest being the worst one i have noticed here.
"I would at this point call your attention back to all your descriptions and assurances that ICECO is, and would be, a company providing top-notch customer service for the long-haul."
I have said many times that response time for customer service can be slow, but rest asssured that if you give them a chance that they are good people and will eventually make things right. I never once claimed "top-notch" customer service as i have stated several times that they are limited in staff (for helping with our GB), as well as stated several times that the language barrier is present as well. The issue here is that it's unreasonable to jump to conclusions when it doesn't seem like he is really giving them a fair chance.
"Among all the participants in this group-buy
only you participated for the good of the community (thank you) and
only you received benefit just for that participation (two fridges - good for you)."
1 fridge so far, and 1 GOPRO (thanks and thanks!). And i would not be so quick to assume that there aren't other members who participated to help the community as well. Some of our members did not need a fridge and ended up buying 5+ for friends and family. Thank you for the kind words.
"Everyone else, to my knowledge, entered into a purchase agreement with every reasonable expectation of getting full quality products and customer service at the agreed price."
Again, as not to mislead anyone. Customer service can be a little slow, but if you give them a chance, they will try their best to make things right. When you go in threatening paypal dispute and judging their way as "unacceptable" after 1 email, then that doesn't give them a chance now does it?
As far as your dents go, i'd send them an email with as much detail as you can (pictures), and please be patient as they try to resolve it for you.