I do not have any experience with the silencer but it does look restrictive. Other members have had good results with their 100's and 80's with the Moroso SpiralFlow. Your friend may want this section cut out and replaced with the Spiralflow.
I do however, have some experience with the catback exhaust. I was waiting until the headers became available from EMS to upgrade, but a couple of months ago when I took my vehicle to Lexus for servicing they told me my exhaust had a pretty good sized leak which was potentially leaking exhaust into the rear cabin.
I placed a call to EMS, spoke with Baktash, who was not only extremely helpful with my purchase, but made sure the exhaust got to the Lexus dealership in time for my install. He told me he would package it himself to make sure it got there and everything went smoothly.
While I had him on the phone I inquired about the headers, he stated March/April 2014.
When I first drove the truck from the dealership (Lexus of Louisville did the install), I thought it was a little too loud for my tastes, but after about 5 minutes I was in love with the sound. Drone was not really a drone as it didn't annoy me, and I'm sensitive to that sort of thing, and the exhaust was only noticeable when opening up the throttle.
I was waiting for my wife's input (she didn't know I had the EMS catback installed), she did mention the truck sounded more throaty but didn't seem to mind. Kids didn't seem to notice.
Given the slight increase in volume, I am going to an audio installer to have the entire vehicle dynamatted in preparation for the header install.
Performance wise, it definitely has a little more pep (on the butt-dyno), more objectively I notice the vehicle doesn't need to downshift as often. There are parts of my commute where during a steep incline with the vehicle on cruise control, the truck would shift to fourth gear (from fifth) but with the EMS exhaust it is able to stay in fifth gear.
Mileage: My mileage has gone down significantly. Mostly because I know make every excuse to WOT so I can hear the exhaust. It is a nice sound!
Jordan, good luck with your friends exhaust.
TeCKis, GLWS.