Are we talking more about our wives or damage from a CDL on while on pavement?
As stated earlier... happy wife, happy life!
2004 Land cruiser... I have a 2003 and it actually says in the owners manual that the CDL can be engaged anytime and will NOT engage when the transfer case is in Low range unless the button is pushed. I think in previous years (98-01) the CDL would automatically lock in Low range. I have driven mine around on dry pavement in High range with the CDL without binding or tires squealing. I did it just for test purposes and would not suggest doing it all the time.
I don’t think locking the center diff would engage the 4low in my 99
I have to physically put in 4low