Your neutral pressures are better, front is good and rear is lower end of range, any chance you have aftermarket coils or packers? At this stage I think we are past blaming neutral pressures for your lack of damping. Height at 19.5 and 20" is in line with expectations. There is a procedure (posted severla weeks ago under heading of "AHC fsm") to specifically measure between the axle c/l and suspension bolt centers which will give you heights down to the millimeter, but 19.5" and 20" hub c/l to fender is rough enough at this stage. Your selector switch is reporting correctly through techstream. Not sure about the damper test you did and any differences in JDM vehicles. I've attached the US market procedure were you short Ts and E1 of DLC1 (under the hood). 1 is softest 16 is hardest. I can't honestly detect 16 incremental steps of firmness, but if everything is working you will easily tell the difference between soft, harder and really firm. I know you replaced your 4x globes initially and now is a good time to confirm they are still serviceable by checking the number of grads between L and H. They could have failed due to contaminated fluid or a manufacturing defect. Check they are still functional, at 2 years old you should have maybe 11 or 12 grads at least, if 14 grads is/was new. Being aftermarket units do you know what their initial charge/volume ratio compared to OEM is, some vendors state they can tailor charge pressure to clients needs. If you can't get any damping response in the manual test then its another nail in the coffin for failed damper actuators. You could try running a can of fresh fluid through the system and set the damper switch to softest and hit some roughs to see if it frees anything up. Cheaper than $2k for damper actuators. Good luck.