Breaking the axle has nothing to do with not getting it out of the carrier. You can experience the same thing without the axle breaking. The design of the rear e-locker is goofy. The axle shafts are not locked to the carrier on both sides. The long side axle is attached to the spider gears (or called pinion gears) and so is the short side. The e-locker mechanism locks uses a sliding collar to lock the axle shaft on the short side to the carrier, however the long side is not. So what happens with enough force the long side (via the spider gears) twists the inside part of the short side shaft inboard of the locking collar.
Once that happens you can not get the shaft out since the locking collar of the e-locker can not move past the twisted section of the splines. I have removed two of these by removing the actuator on the diff and using a cutting torch to cut the shift fork and locking collar. $170 each time you trash those parts. Both times the axles were not broken, just twisted.
Stronger axles might not help this, because just like Longfields, they are made to take more twist and not shatter, so they might be prone to more twisting.
Believe it or not, we have seen a rear tire do a full revolution without the opposing tire moving with the locker engaged. The only way that happens is when the axle shafts twist.
So, when running large tires I would suggest and ARB over the e-locker any time. 37's or larger with heavy rock crawling