Dan,
To answer your question - "Wonder where the two smaller bushings and then the two metal bushings go?"
To the right of your diagram - next to the red arrow you drew. There are 2 nuts/bolts - part of the rack has these rubber bushings on it. These are not "replaceable" they are part of the rack itself. So when those bushings wear out, you have to replace the whole thing!
http://www.fulcrumsuspensions.com.au/fulcrumCat/ (posted by Calamaridog) is another option but that is where the aluminum bushings that Siglo mentioned goes to.
The big rubber bushing you pointed is easily replace without removing the rack - you will need a pretty long extension to get to the bolts from the top.
The steering rack on my truck is moving around too. Instead of fixing it, I think I'd rather do a solid axle swap