we've owned 2 loaded Sienna's, a 4Runner Limited and now a Platinum Highlander. Of the three, the Highlander is the best driving vehicle for daily use...the Sienna was the most comfortable for long hauls and the 4Runner felt the safest in weird weather.
That said, here are the turn offs for all three. I don't care what anyone says, the Sienna sounds like a tin can when you shut the doors and the driving is only ok because the kids had the damn video up so loud I couldn't hear the road noise. It handles like crapola in winter. Gobs of space but uninspiring to drive.
The 4runner was fine in winter. The third row was almost more of a pain than it was worth. Felt numb driving it...not inspiring in the slightest. To be honest, it was boring.
Highlander is marginally better but has little whistles at speed, is ok in snow, ok with comfort, as long as you are in the first two rows but really is nothing more than a slightly bigger sedan. It drives nicely but is still short of being "fun" to drive. (Acura MDX was better, imo) My wife LOVES the giant sunroof and the seating position/view. My kids HATE the third row and all three run to the car to claim a second row spot before the other gets it. And then it begins..."Mom, you need a bigger car". (what happened to the days like when I was young and my dad had a two-door Ford Tempo or Buick Skylark and all 4 of us had to sit in the back, with the dog, for hours?)
ALL THREE are EVERYWHERE. I hate having what EVERYONE else has.
So, here I am, with a 4Runner TRD PRO on order and am contemplating a slightly used LC 200. The difference is $15k but I get so much more with the LC.
I love the allure of the LC and the rarity of the TRD PRO but am afraid I'm walking back into something I didn't love. I want the LC as much but am worried I'll be disappointed with space?
Anyway, not sure I added much to the conversation but felt compelled to share my quandary and insight.