FYI, Bilsteins used to be my favorite until I've seen several 5150s on Jeeps with broken mounting studs and pissed out seals within a few months. Bilstein wouldn't stand behind their junk, even being less than a year old on light to moderately wheeled vehicles. 90 day warranty. I've seen $20 shocks at Napa last way longer. My .02.
Agree, have seen the same.
I'm far from an ARB fan boy, their bumper is the biggest disappointment on my rig. That said the suspension, with some tuning has been a success, pleased with it for my use. It has ~80K mi on it with zero sag and the shocks are going strong, even with pretty good abuse.
That said there is no "perfect universal suspension", there can't be, the usage is too diverse and it's largely a subjective, personal preference thing. A perfect riding street setup is going to suck off road, a great rock setup is going to suck in the high speed stuff, A good load carrying/towing setup is going to suck at just about everything else, etc.
My rig sees DD duties, like to play in the rocks and do long scenic runs, like White Rim in one day!

So it's a huge compromise, it can't do all of those things prefect, but does them without any big ride/handling issues. A bunch of my off road buddies have ridden in it, when I come to the "big" bumps (RR track, speed bumps) I accelerate, they have all been shocked, WOW this thing rides good!

Yes, you can feel the dime in the road, but it soaks up the big bumps very well.
A suspension that others rave about may suck on your rig with your preference, load, use, etc. The best bet is to hookup with a local club, ride/drive other rigs, setup like you want, in the terrain where you intend to travel and evaluate what you prefer.