I want to thank all of you who answered my questions. As a followup, here's what happened. When i couldn't place the pin in smoothly, i used brake cleaner, and a properly sized drill bit (slightly smaller) and cleaned out the inside of the cavity. Using a high grit sandpaper would have been difficult because placing the sandpaper with something (ie the old pin or a small drill bit etc) would have been actually quite difficult. It still required a slight bit of force to place the caliper pin in place. I realized that this was probably because the lower caliper pin has a rubber sleeve at the end and pushing the pin in place creates a bit of hydraulic pressure so to speak with the brake lube. Needless to say, i got everything to place and thus far, all is good in my world.
Also, in order to get the caliper pin out of the bracket, i needed to use an airchisel. Didn't take a long time to do, but had i been doing it by hand, frustration, doubt and more frustration would have set in and i don't know what the outcome would have been. what i figured was, if i damage it, it's not like i can't buy another part to replace it and i would then chaulk it up to experience.