This thread is pretty comprehensive about this topic -
100 too stiff after OME medium lift There are lots of contrasting opinions on this mod.
For reference: I have the 2.5" Medium kit (with the 60000 and 600002 shocks OME tbars, 2860 Rear Coil Springs and SPC UCA's) and find it to be a comfortable (subjective) ride overall (in town and on highways) even without the 3rd row seats, no gear, no bumpers, no sliders and no skids.
Doing my best to be descriptive and not subjective- it is unquestionable much firmer around town (<45mph with no weight) which I think some guys say is "too firm". Admittedly, as everyone mentions, it does ride more smoothly around town loaded down, but that is the point in upgrading suspension, right? Having the ability to carry more weight without the truck getting sloppy is why I personally chose upgraded to OME vs just putting new factory shocks/springs and cranking the T bars. I love the way it handles on the freeway now vs the stock setup. No body roll even with weight and my friends in the car.
I'd say if you want performance suspension that is "softer" most people either go with something tuneable with remote reservoirs or get new factory shocks with the stock tbars cranked. Of course, the Slee, Radflo, Icon shocks are going to cost ya 3x what the OME runs. Gotta pay to play on the suspension but it really all depends on what you want the truck to do well most often. If you are down to put ~4k into your suspension setup, you can have it all. If you want to pay <2k then you obviously have to make some concessions on the ride quality around town while unloaded.
Hope that helps guide your future endeavors and help those who are looking to make this upgrade in the future.