OK think of your 4wd system like this:
0---FD---0.......Front Diff is OPEN
.......!
.......!
......CD...........Center Diff is OPEN
.......!
.......!
0---RD---0.......Rear Diff is OPEN
So power is applied to all wheels until one wheel slips then all the power goes to that wheel, this is how the system behaves if you DON"T have a VC. The VC is like a limited slip clutch, if a wheel at the front looses traction instead of all of the power going out through that wheel the VC uses fluid to 'couple' the rear drive shaft to the rotation of the front drive shaft. This coupling splits the power and sends some to the axle with traction automatically and seamlessly. The VC doesn't take the place of the center diff lock, it can only send something like 20 or 30% of the power to the other axle, the CDL 'locks' the split 50/50.