I guess I'm making a spacer...or trying to source a shorter probe, but I think the spacer solution will be easier. I did hear back from Magnaflow, the vendor. This is their response:
"Thank you for allowing us sometime, to do some research on the concern you're having. In doing our research, it is unfortunate that, this part will not be compatible for your vehicle application. There was a change in the temperature probe size, that happened from 1981 onward. The two parts we offer, the direct fit and universal will be for the smaller temperature probe. Please take this case#316574 to the retailer you purchased from, to get a refund."
I did look up some parts, and there was a part number change for the FJ60, but this happened in 04/1985, not 1981. I also looked up part numbers for the 1980-1983 FJ40s and they all have the same part number but different from the two identified for the FJ60. If anyone knows of a shorter temperature sensor probe, I would like that information...
Thanks.