I can confirm 4.30s are perfect for these tire sizes (currently on 35x10.50r17 myself). It drives great. I can see the argument for 4.88 but for me, thats a little too over-geared for my needs and driving style. If my LX was a dedicated off road vehicle only then I could see the use case for 4.88s more as that ratio would crawl nicer off road, offer slightly better control. I had 4.56s on my old gx470 on 35s and 5 speed A750F transmission. 4.10s would have matched better on that transmission and the same 35s. 5th gear was screaming along at 2300rpm at 70, which I was not particularly fond of. The 4.30s on the LX with 6 speed on 35s keeps rpms under 2k at 70 still. Best of both worlds if you ask me. But I'll definitely be stepping down to an AT 285/75r17 C rated tire. It should be more comfortable and a bit better handling than the skinny 35s which are an RT tread style and D load rating.Thanks for the insight! After reading through your 4.30 regear thread, I am leaning towards getting the 295/70 now (cause I really need new tires) and collecting the 4.30 regear parts. That will probably give me what I'm looking for in the end. I do want to keep the ability to tow a car trailer and a ~4400 lb car, but as it's something I rarely do I hope I'll be ok until I'm ready for the regear.
I was thinking about my complaints a but more and I started to wonder if having 30mm spring spacers in the rear was necessary in my use case. My original plan was to have a dual swingout rear bumper as Ive done to my two previous rigs, but I decided against it. However, I had prepped for the added weight of the bumper and set of drawers, by installing the 30mm spring spacers to help the AHC with the weight. Maybe I should remove the spacers altogether or step down to 10 or 20 mm instead, as I do run max sensor lift. Not sure if that would change dynamics at all in the rear.