so they are stiff at low speed but nice at high speed? It seems like are you saying two opposite things... very stiff on road but soak up speed bums and dips like butter? I'm more concerned with feel at speeds of 20+ mph
Well, in a way I am saying two different things. Cracks, joints, and bumps are different than speed bumps, dips in the road, etc. These shock perform in a different way than a OEM or OME shock by the way they are designed. For clarity, I am running the Radflo 2.5" remote res shocks. At 6'-2" and 205lbs it took almost everything I had to compress one of these shocks.
Based on what you said:
My big gripe right now with the stock shocks is that I feel every joint and bump and get a nice jolt from speed bumps. I'm sure a lot has to do with the E rated tires but still...
I would bet you would never be happy with the on-road feel of these shocks.
I rebuilt everything on the underside of my rig this summer. I replaced shocks, springs, installed TC UCA's, replaced the rear UCA and installed Slee heavy duty rear LCA's. I replaced all sway bar bushings and links, installed Timbren bump stops, replaced the front Diff support brackets and bushings, etc. The ride is by far stiffer than it has ever been with OEM or the OME suspension I ran before. Those cracks and bumps in the road are a lot more prevalent than before. Enough that I went through and checked body mounts and repacked the bearings thinking it might be that. In the end it is just the nature of the way these ride and the carppy roads around where I live. Speeds above say 40mph and everything smooths out. Below that you feel everything.
Well that is my experience in a nut shell anyway.....
I hope this is helpful for you. Weather or not these would be right for you really depends on where and how you drive. What is your goal. When I was up in Northern CA and spending a lot of time up around Tahoe and the Rubicon, I feel a shock like the OME, Billi, etc. is a better suited shock. Now that I am in Southern CA and spending more time in the desert. This shock made more since to me. I like to drive fast and hitting dips at speed.
If you are looking into the Radflo I would recommend calling and talking with Glen about your needs and wants. I would also recommend finding some one nearby with a King/Radflo set-up and go for a ride with them so you can feel first hand how they perform.
As for how jaring your ride sounds now with the OEM shocks, I would recommend repacking the bearings and checking all body mounts. When I made the switch from OEm to OME I was around 115K. I never experienced a ride like you describe on the OEM shock. In fact I thought it was uber cush....
Ok, Now back to work. Hopefully some one else can help shed some light for you too!

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