Jason, Dan, Scott, et.al.
This topic has come up before, and the answer to Jason's question is not quite so simple, I do not believe. Apparently, not all Cruisers are quite the same... OR, there is more than one location to interrupt the circuit.
In my 97 40th, the trailer socket is in the place where Jason is looking, not where Scott has found his. It is a 3-wire, "T4" connector: Red with a black stripe (back-up light), green with no stripe (tail light), and green with a white stripe (stop light). The aftermarket trailer harness I use (DrawTite #18357) uses this one, and it works fine.
It is also a convenient place to tap off for an aux back-up light, aux license plate light, etc.
Cheers, R -