I can see how it might sound that way. I haven't posted every aspect of my use of the vehicle or circumstances here. I'm not really offended, but you also don't have the whole story.
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Short version: Let's go wheeling together then you can judge. The 80 is the perfect truck for me and my family and lessons learned can't be taken away. If it makes you feel better, my next 80 will probably be an LX, so I'll have the

badge. Ed is going to a "save the 80's" foundation. My friend has over 20 of them and will make better use of him than I can. So, suck it up buttercup! I'm addicted.
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Long version:
I'm not a purist. I was on the 60 forum last night and one of the guys bought a dirty 60 in 2014. Within 3 weeks he had polished it and replaced things and made it a show piece. That's not me. My passion is finding the best tool for the job, whatever that job is. Then I use it. My sister has refused to allow any consumables in her vehicles besides water. It makes for miserable road trips, but her cars stay perfect. Her house is immaculate, but her kids can't wait to get out of it.
There's a balance between sucking the marrow from the bones of life, sliding sideways into the grave and making sure your "things" are kept nice and not living. They're just "things". I lean more to marrow sucking and less to having so many restrictions that life is sucking.
My kids climbed in and out the windows, sat on top to watch the Milky way and drive in movies, ate French fries in the back, climbed in wet from the lake, walked over seats with their shoes on (got yelled at for that, usually), etc.
I drive over curbs and medians to get where I want. If we're on a road trip and I see a dirt road I jump on it to see where it goes, and I don't drive slow. I take "short cuts" across the desert that add hours to the trip but unforgettable memories. I took it places other than mild roads you've seen in my pictures. I'm driving, my wife is scared, and I don't have anyone to take a picture. It doesn't mean I didn't go there.
I wheeled this rig as hard as it could handle with my care. I never took it on a cruise Moab trip. I felt like I would be deemed "not worthy". There are a lot of really good people on the forum, but there are also some judgmental pricks. Ain't nobody got time For that.
Life changes. Circumstances change. I maintained the rig pretty well, really well in fact, until my daughter started driving it and the abuse went to a new level. As I added up the cosmetic repairs alone it was cheaper to buy a cruiser in good shape than it was too replace seats, door panels, stereo, speakers, headliner (the dog ate that), seat belts (dog again), and fix the damage from her fender benders. When maintenence went downhill life had gone upside down and doing and baselines all the fluids and adding a bull bar were less important than paying bills. It happens. So, maintenance went to the minimum required to keep it running. I always knew one of my kids would destroy it, probably the one that actually did. Why put money into it?
I'm self employed so can't get a mortgage at this point, so we don't have a garage while we rent our house. That won't always be the case.
I learned how to take care of an 80 by making mistakes. Now Ed's front end is pushed over. The frame is bent. The fan is in the radiator. Who knows what's busted in the axle! I'm not going to fix that when I can buy a better vehicle for less than the cost of repairs. I may not be Icon or Cristo, but I'm not stupid. I'm also not sending it to the scrap yard. My friend builds Cruisers. He'll use it much better than I could.
If you worship the cruiser you'll say I'm not worthy. I don't worship it, I love it for the life it let's me live. I live my life for me and my family, not the cruiser. If a "thing" meets an untimely demise but my kids have their first driving experiences in the safety, durability, capability, and versatility of an 80, I'm ok with that. You don't have to be.
