You’ve probably seen the warnings on mud. Make certain your dissy is fully seated or it won’t turn your oil pump.
Here’s how I remember the firing order
When #1 is on compression stroke, #6 is on opposite exhaust stroke.
With valve cover removed and #1 on compression stroke both of #1’s rockers should be up and not under tension. You can wiggle them. Since #6 is pushing exhaust gas out the exhaust valve rocker near #6 should be pushing down the valve. Try to wiggle it, it will be under tension.
Pretty sure with the dissy cap off the rotor button should point towards the #4 spark plug in the block. Are you sure you are on compression? You need to feel air pressure with thumb, do the TP trick, or watch what your rockers are doing, not just feel for the piston. If you were to install your dissy cap, is the rotor button underneath the #1 spark plug wire on the cap? That’s the key, you can move your wires around to make it work.

Here’s how I remember the firing order
15 36 24
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When #1 is on compression stroke, #6 is on opposite exhaust stroke.
With valve cover removed and #1 on compression stroke both of #1’s rockers should be up and not under tension. You can wiggle them. Since #6 is pushing exhaust gas out the exhaust valve rocker near #6 should be pushing down the valve. Try to wiggle it, it will be under tension.
Pretty sure with the dissy cap off the rotor button should point towards the #4 spark plug in the block. Are you sure you are on compression? You need to feel air pressure with thumb, do the TP trick, or watch what your rockers are doing, not just feel for the piston. If you were to install your dissy cap, is the rotor button underneath the #1 spark plug wire on the cap? That’s the key, you can move your wires around to make it work.