That's just the thing. There is no high end anything that is as effective across as broad of a spectrum as AHC - hence my enthusiasm. You can get higher load carrying or more high speed washboard handling with an aftermarket setup, but always at the detriment of other use cases.
I hear you on the KISS. Though that's somewhat of an interesting concept when applied to the tour de force of the Hundy, which has other high end sophisticated systems such as the electric brake booster, VGRS, etc. I trust Toyota to walk the fine line between too much complexity at the cost of reliability and durability, which I feel the Hundy does with aplomb. At a cost. Though I knew this going in which is okay with me.
IDK if you have ever driven anything with high end remote res shocks that are properly tuned, but it is very impressive what it will do to the way a vehicle rides and handles.
Personally, Im not a fan of how AHC handles the weight of the vehicle in some situations....doesnt have the valving to keep it from wallowing around.
As for KISS, the stuff you listed is going to be there on any newer vehicle. Electric brake boosters have been around a while and are necessary these days. ATRAC, ABS, EBD, and all that other kind of stuff are mostly software and a few sensors.
AHC is different because it is a mechanical load bearing system with moving parts that are constantly being worked. Once it fails you are essentially stuck, there is no limping home when AHC dies, unless you want to risk damaging your truck more. Plus the way i look at it is, in the rest of the world, where these vehicles are used as Toyota intended them to be used, very very few of them have AHC.