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Last Tuesday, ordered part from junkyard - $125 shipped with 60 day guarantee.
Sunday, I had to drive the truck to haul my mower to mother-in-laws. Found it strangely encouraging that the dash control behaved exactly the same without the a/c amplifier hooked up as it did with it. Found it irritating to notice that the dealership had scratched the face on my radio. I'm not done with them yet by a long shot.
Monday night, come home to a box on the stoop. Pop it in, turn the key to on, push the buttons, and I have FAN! The control seems to be working correctly now, so I'm happy. Haven't run it to check the a/c but the a/c was never the problem it was always in the electronic controls (which I'm convincied it has too many). Didn't have time to completely put the dash together last night, so maybe I'll get to it tonight, and I'll try and snap a few photos of putting back together.
THEN - I'm writtting this up as a FAQ - as I know I'm not the only one who has had this problem, but there is no where on mud that it is easy to find the answer to this problem - I looked and looked, and asked and asked, and no-one seemed to know - so hopefully the next person can avoid this.