TEX68w, we also are just my wife and I, but sometimes my daughter and granddaughter, but they will drive themselves and use my wife's Taco to load their own gear in, so we're not over loaded.
Being in the Army, I completely understand your minimalist attitude. My Go-Bag and 3-Day Assault Bag are very trim.
And even all our camping gear is very trim, it's just that it is very "comfortable" camping, which takes up room. I have everything setup as systems so it takes less space and fewer components to load when we head out.
Personally, I'd really like to design and build my own trailer. There are features I'd add that I have not seen on any other trailer, like a ~20 gal fuel cell with a hand pump to augment not having to carry 5 gal jerry gas cans or roto packs on the back bumper. Haaving a vertical telescoping stall on the front tongue (a long tongue) so when it is collapsed, it's only about 4' high, slide it up and it'll be about 6.6 to 7' high with a shower head and port-a-potty inside. Dry camping with no toilets is kind of a sticking point with my wife, although she's quite the trooper and does fine.
Agreed, it just doesn't make sense with my personal needs, I'm solo a lot of the time as well and simply use a blowup mattress in the back and sleep quite comfortably. I built my first trailer using a M1101 HMMWV trailer as the base. It was a fun project and I had a water tank underneath, some nice touches like you're mentioning, but it still didn't tickle my fancy. My other half wishes for more amenities as well but she makes do for a night or two with a whores bath (body wipes) and the luggable loo.
Tex68w: you're right, it isn't the norm for "adventure trailers". I also agree that towing isn't fun, that it was expensive, and that it limits what / where you can go with it. The advantages (all comfort related) outweigh the disadvantages for me because it means I can get the family out camping at a fairly high frequency. Without this, we wouldn't go very often.
Ideal setup for me would be a minimalist approach (tent, small fridge, and some cooking equipment) for just me (or maybe my daughter when she's a bit older), and the trailer for when *people* (wife) who require more comfort want to come.
I was in the Navy, so I guess I like the comfort a little too! I was initially very dismissive of the value of having onboard hot water, but I will tell you that after a day of hiking and hanging out around a campfire, a quick rinse off feels GREAT.
r2m: the camera quality is *okay*, and it does a decent job of backup camera and rear view mirror duties. Not as clear as direct vision for sure, but it is enough to know what's behind you. You can select or deselect the image on the Garmin very easily.
I understand the need for some and it sounds like your trailer makes a lot of sense for your needs and it looks like a spectacular unit. I grew up in a Navy family so I understand where you're coming from haha, my family thinks I am nuts for going Army but I knew enough about the Navy to stay away haha. The Navy and most certainly the Air Force had it much better than us. The AF got an added monthly stipend for certain posts that were considered substandard by the AF standards lol. Fort Sam Houston was the nicest post I was ever stationed at and the AF got a stipend there, I can only imagine how fantastic their bases were lol.
I had a FreeSpiritReacreation Overlander trailer. I bought it second hand for $8k CAD including the M60 Adventure tent, spent about $3-4k CAD on modifications, and sold the tent & trailer (separately) for $13.5k. It was a great little unit, but it had downsides. Poor entry into the storage (small doors), non-lifting top, lack of OEM tongue platform, spare wheel, etc.
I recently saw a well-equipped CVT trailer locally for $12.5k CAD brand new. It was a phenomenal unit - very well built, had everything you'd need, at a very attractive price. If I were to go this adventure trailer route again, that's what I would buy.
If you are planning on basecamping for a week, I would skip the whole ordeal and get a small, but proper travel trailer like the Hymer Touring I've got now.
I don't think my trailer limits me in any way. I can back up a trailer like a champ, and if it really comes down to it, I can take it off the vehicle, spin it around, and re-connect after turning myself around. I think this is a fantastic setup for going doing a somewhat-rough FSR, setting up camp, and exploring from there.
The lack of a pop top is what kills it for me with a lot of these adventure trailers.