Just got back from being under the car all afternoon, yes the bolts were really tight, but it's not just my arm pits that are strong.
The rear shaft was hard to get off the studs, I could not even compress it to clear the studs, thats cos I had pumped it up with grease a month ago, think thats why I was having the donk issue, so removed the grease nipple and was then able to compress the shaft, and all the grease I had pumped in, came out.
The splines were clean very free moving with no hard dry grease to cause any astiction at all, so cleaned off and put new grease in and pushed the UJ end back inside, moved it back and forth a few times and bolted back together, also found the same on the front shaft, and done the same to that too.
I then took the car out for a test drive, I done all the usual thing that could induce the donk, but all was good with no donks at all, I can only assume, I got the trouble after pumping a few shots of grease in the grease nipple, causing it to have pressure and thus no free movement.