You asked about power and weight.
My 12v 6BT / NV4500 swapped truck has a stock tune circa 1995 Dodge Ram and a stock fuel plate on it, I'm running 35"s, a 4" OME lift with Comp Coils / heavies for suspension. It is definitely a heavier truck than stock but with heavy / stiff suspension, the ride quality and handling are really good. It turns progressively and predictably, and so while it doesn't corner like a Porsche 911, it never was going to before anyway, and I've adjusted my driving style to cope with the weight. But the additional weight is overcome easily with the motor. With the stock tune alone, the engine never really has to try all that hard. You can go as crazy as you want turning up the motor, but for me, stock is what I want and need.
With the two bumpers I've got, a rooftop tent and a week's worth of camping gear, it'll still run at 75mph and pass on the interstate no problems. When all my gear is out of the truck and I'm just driving around town, I can out-accelerate nearly any other pickup / work truck / semi with ease. You can get silly power out of Cummins motors - I feel like what I've got is more than enough for how I use my truck, balanced against how much torque I want to put into the rest of the drivetrain.
HOW the power gets applied on dirt, on a trail, or rock crawling has been the game changer for me, and ultimately it's where the truck comes into it's sweet spot. So much power and grip out of the whole platform that it puts a grin on my face every time - accelerating up a loose dirt road in 3rd gear with the turbo whistle and a crazy linear torque curve makes it worthwhile for me, and climbing over 11,000 foot passes, even fully loaded down, is a breeze.
I find the swap to have a lot of character, and while I've spent more than I would have liked, I really, really enjoy mine.