I say this only in the most non-smartass possible way - if you even consider the potential for one of those, perhaps it's the wrong vehicle. While that seems a restatement of THE answer, it's only meant to kindly suggest you're very likely gonna just extend the pain of ownership. If she and the kids need the space of a Honda van, they could very likely pile into a sturdier Outback w/o going full Cruiser. Our two grew up in old MB wagons and loved it; KA has the Outback today based on that experience, humming happily at over 100K Just saying.