This past winter I had lots of issues with my butt warmer seat heaters blowing fuses; now you may say this is not related but in doing research over all my track downs I went thru all 3 of my fuse box in the vehicle (now it depends on your year how many and where they are).
the biggest thing is that you said all the lights went out (radio /dash etc) then you should focus on main power supply connections; like someone noted before rodents seem to love chewing on the plastic wrapped wires; because you had a whole lot of stuff going on (radio lights etc) it has to be a main power source issue. most of the items are isolated so if a particular item breaks the rest still works; example if your stereo craps out the vehicle should still run. I think you are on the right track with alternator etc but follow up that first. when checking the alternator did you check all of those connections??
the biggest thing is that you said all the lights went out (radio /dash etc) then you should focus on main power supply connections; like someone noted before rodents seem to love chewing on the plastic wrapped wires; because you had a whole lot of stuff going on (radio lights etc) it has to be a main power source issue. most of the items are isolated so if a particular item breaks the rest still works; example if your stereo craps out the vehicle should still run. I think you are on the right track with alternator etc but follow up that first. when checking the alternator did you check all of those connections??