Those are great tips. I've had pretty lengthy conversations with all of them and the dial indicator checking for crankshaft thrust clearance was never mentioned. There isn't much room in between the pully and the radiator, maybe because they are hesitant to take it that far apart just for diagnosis? With the abnormal engine noise, I think they got pretty confident in the diagnosis.It should be really easy to check crankshaft thrust clearance with a dial indicator. Any idea whether any of the shops have done this yet?
Also you can send off a sample of the engine oil for analysis. If anything is letting the crank walk there would be plenty of evidence of it in the oil.
For oil analysis, is there a length of time or number of miles you'd want in there before sending off? With the leak and keeping it topped off and the latest full change seemingly not that long ago (before I got it), its clean and golden yet.