I said to heck with it, and neutered the SBI so it is just a starter relay.
I could have saved $120 if I just bought a starter relay in the first place.
It works fine for jumping with the trigger being the positive wire from the Switch-Pros. When power is applied it connects the batteries. No power applied, the batteries are isolated.
The BCDC takes care of controlling charging of the auxiliary, and isolating them.
Hopefully I didn't do something stupid. The good news is that I could put it all back together quickly if needed. Nothing was altered or damaged when removing the smart bits.
The part I removed:
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