Just looking for a bit of sanity check from those that usually have good points/ideas, overall. Someone was the winning bidder on my 100 on cars&bids. They don't want to pay for it until they come out and see it - which is ok with me. I asked for a non-refundable deposit as they won't be out for 1 week+. They are somewhat balking at the request - saying they plan on going through with the purchase unless 'something significantly different than what the pictures and description disclose'. I've done it in the past for vehicles that I have bought and then gone to see. They want to do a refundable deposit, which makes zero sense to me, as they have nothing to lose. Am I cutting my nose off to spite my face by asking for this? tia 