You bet, glad to help. I went through a LOT of effort monkeying around with relays for no reason. Let us know what you find.
I know this is way old and I hope you found a solution long ago. However just for future reference I will comment.
You only Need one relay of this type. Wire only the up replay in the diagram. Put the red wire to 87a and the green to 87. You jumper from 87a to 87 with the diode so power flows from 87 to 87a but not reversed. Switch up down is only needed in the up position. So the down can just be terminated at the switch.
Hope this help you and others.