well, heres my take as I drive into DC all the time.
Traffic sucks, sometimes.
I recently quit my day job with an insurance company and decided to go out on my own as a broker. While getting started in the insurance biz about 2 years ago, I worked at a restaurant downtown and now have gone back to the restaurant a couple of nights per week as I get up and running on my own.
I live in Fairfax and give myself an hour to get to the restaurant. Generally, 35-45 minutes is sufficient but..... BUT weird s*** happens (accidents on
either side of 66,tickets being written on the shoulder, events, stupid silly rubbernecking is out of control). Saturday is actually the worst traffic. This is me leaving the 'burbs at 3pm against traffic flow. The west bound side of 66 is a parking lot!
I drive the 7-9 miles to tysons for meetings during the day. 10am meetings in Tysons still take atleast 30 minutes to get too. To be one with the traffic, one must plan around it.
Overall, its nice here though. As others have mentioned, the mountains and the beaches are not too far away. There are even some great parks nearby. I bring the dogs to Great Falls a lot and usually hit up the eastern shore a couple of times per year.
Jobs are pretty abundant here if you are in the restaurant industry. If you need a job, let me know what kind of place you want to work at and I can see who i know. I work at Oya (
OYA | Restaurant | Lounge | Asian | French | Washington DC ) mainly because they will let me work 2 nights a week whenever I want. Sometime the money is pretty awesome and sometimes just typical. Gotta push those $17 Grey Goose martinis I can safely say the full time guys make $1000-1500/week - sometimes 2K! There are probably 50 restaurants on K street alone! Which one is your GF planning to work at?
I can't say much for Texas as I have only been there twice. Once when I was a youngster living in Luisiana we went to a zoo in texas and once I got a very good tour of an airport from a chick from Austin during a lay over...... This has led me to believe girls from texas are very friendly and seem to take care of themselves....
Cost of living here is pretty high but you get used to it. I don't know what type of lifestyle you live, but I don't think Chicago is cheap either.
In Northern VA a 2 bedroom apartment will run you about 1400-1700 per month. Closer in arlington, probably closer to 2000 or more. DC prices are about the same depending on where you live in the city. I would generally recommend NW DC.
A beer in Dc will usually run you 5 bucks. Cocktails atleast $8-10.
If you're working in a restaurant, stay away from the Ruby Tuesdays and TGIFriday places. You won't make squat. Some of the local chains are good.
Clydes restaurant group is decent. Good money but your sole purpose for life will become Clydes.
Great American restaurants are always busy and ranked as one of the best DC area employers.
Otherwise, lots of smaller restaurant groups with successful restaurants. Lots of good steakhouses and hotel restaurants.
If I was to get back into this industry fiull time, I think I would try for Ray's the Steaks in Arlington. Fairly expensive (but not really for a steakhouse) and patrons are told they have the table 90 minutes and then must get up and leave. They are always on a wait and it seems like an easy place to work.
If you want high end fine dining, lots to choose from too.
So I need to stop typing and get to working. Let me know if you decide on DC and if you need a job.
Andrew