It's interesting to see these threads. As a 3 Tacoma, 2 4Runner and now recently a 1 LC owner, every single forum has these complaints.
And let me tell you, drive a 2016+ Tacoma with the 3.5L and 6 speed. You'll see why the 4Runner with the 4.0 and 5 speed is vastly better. Then drive a LC 2016+ and you'll see that it's even better.
It hunts a little cause like others said, Toyota cruiser programming is terrible. Tacoma and 4Runner would hang after cresting a hill in 3500RPM for 15 - 30 seconds at times, so you're screaming coming down a hill.
And something that's taken my many years to overcome is the thought of hunting. Are you worried the hunting is going to reduce the 300k lifespan of the trans? You won't own it that long, and for those that do, you'll just do basic maintenance and it will be fine. I used to think about things, and then realized that's why I paid the Toyota engineers. They didn't solve everything perfectly (Needle bearing, cruise programming, remote start door open turn off), but how many of these transmissions (Tacoma, 4Runner, Tundra, Seqoia, and Lexus versions) have hunted themselves to death?
Probably fewer than the humans how had hunting accidents in the woods