Electrical is my kryptonite, so bear with me. In my single battery experience, running a fridge nearly 24/7 in my truck, shortens the lifespan of my main battery (group 34). I've run a massive 78 yellow top before and no increased performance was achieved. My goal of installing a second battery was to eliminate the shortened lifespan by splitting duty between two batteries. The winch always has to run on the main/starting battery to my knowledge, and as pointed out above, you typically run the winch while the rig is running. So, nothing changes there.
I hear Rob's and Bomar's argument, but those scenarios describe massive drainage situations. I'm thinking an extraordinary winching operation that goes on for eternity that would exceed the alternators output. Or you've parked the vehicle in the Canadian tundra for 3 weeks while living out of the truck. When are you going to drain your starting battery to the point it won't crank, if all your accessories are pulling from the 2nd battery in a key off position?
So for a fridge, vent fan, LED lights, can you not benefit from running those off a second battery without worry of affecting your starting battery? Does any of this change if you have a larger capacity alternator? I'm running a 180A alt on my rig now, hoping it will prolong the life of my single battery where running a larger battery did not. I'm fumbling through this, so please edumacate me.