for this application you only need to know the amperage and voltage,
16 volts is a common rating for automotive, a diode rated for that or higher will be fine
finding the amperage that the coil of the relay (and therefore the diode) carries may be interesting, you could use an amp meter if you have one, it is likely well below 6a (I would think less than 1a but I am not 100% sure), if so this diode would do nicely:
http://www.radioshack.com/product.a...name=CTLG_011_002_006_000&product_id=276-1661
the diode will allow flow when the black end is “+” and the silver stripe end is “-”, it will stop current flow when the black end is negative and the silver striped end is positive
or put another way the silver stripe faces towards ground
or another way the silver striped end faces the yellow and red wire, the black end goes towards the switch,
you can install it in-line anywhere between the output of the switch and where you tap into the red and yellow “B” wire, either before or after the coil pins on the relay wherever is most convenient, you will have to solder it in, cover the diode and its leads with shrink wrap to prevent a short and add more chafe protection if needed for the location
just so we know we are workign the right problem here, with the aux switch in the off position:
the indicator in the switch is not lit when the low beams are off and the aux switch is lit when the low beams are on correct?