Alright folks. The great news is that I have finally eliminated the vibration, the bad news is that it cost me another $1200 or so to do it. And what a process it turned out to be. But now she's as smooth as the day she was new, and with 315's!
BLUF:
1 Straightened/balanced rear drive shaft.
1 Slee Diff Drop Kit.
2 New front OEM CV shafts/seals.
With (a) bad front CV shaft(s) it probably won't matter what you do to the rear drive shaft in a situation like mine. Better off to drop the front diff when you put on the lift. Depending on the miles of the truck (170,000 in my case) the shafts might already be on their way out anyway and that increased angle just might make that happen right away, regardless of what the boots have to say about it.
The process:
As I mentioned in my last post I was going to take the rear drive shaft down and have em check it out. I thought it might need to be lengthened but upon discussion with Tom Wood himself I realized I could just check the balance at both the original length and at the new extended length to see if there was any difference. Apparently the shaft had over time warped to a degree, so it was unable to be balanced until they fixed that. On the lathe they applied heat and got it straightened right out then rebalanced it with new weights at the extended length. Great I thought, straightening a bent shaft and balancing it out ought to take care of the problem. I drove it and although the vibration was reduced it was still quite prevalant. But at least that only cost me $40 vs. a whole new shaft. My Ogden dealership wanted around $800 for the two piece unit, but Kurt priced me a replacement around the $400 mark. But in the end I didn't need one anyway.
My next step was to try to drive the truck with each of the drive shafts out one at a time to try to isolate front or rear. Upon driving with only the front shaft in (center diff locked, essentially front wheel drive) the vibes and noises were dramatically increased. At this point I basically committed to rebuilding the front end (new boots at a minimum & diff drop kit) as should have been done along with the lift installation (this truck has 170,000 miles on it). In the mean time, for the two weeks I had to leave for work, I just had my wife drive it around with only the rear shaft in and center diff locked. I thought the black electrical tape over the instrument panel lights was a professional touch for her two weeks and boy was I glad to take it off!

The vibes were still there but not nearly as much. At first I was reluctant to drive it this way but eventually gave it a shot and proved that it can be done without any harm to the gear boxes, for at least some period of time.
I knew the front boots were shot and I theorized that maybe the vibes were coming from the front when the rubber slung to one side eccentrically at high speeds. This may or may not have been a factor but after debating whether to just drop the diff and try to reboot it, then deciding to go ahead and spend the cash for the new OEM shafts I discovered the right inner joint had one of the 3 roller assemblies in pieces inside. It was shot. Primary source of the vibes and noises identified.
I did the diff drop kit, which only took about an hour or a little more, then spent the rest of the day getting grease up to my armpits putting in those sweet new seals and shafts. A quick note: as some have mentioned before, separating the upper ball joint is probably the best (and only way if you don't want to disassemble the hubs) way because of the limited clearance between the bottom of the disc and the ball joint which prevents you from sliding the puller into place, at least my puller. The second side was a lot quicker because of this realization. Also; turning the steering wheel in favor of pushing your spindle outward helps greatly with clearing the shaft from the two holes.
As for the outboard axle shaft clips that Skidoo mentioned; Kurt does offer them but his recommendation was that those were usually only necessary when rebuilding the hubs or otherwise changing those dimensions, not when only putting in new shafts. There was some small gap, the same as with the old shafts so I think it's good.
With everything bolted back up I was pretty darn confident that it was going to be fixed. Oh what relief it was when I loaded her up on the on ramp and continued all the way up to 85 mph indicated and didn't feel a thing! So sweet!
So there ya have it. My little adventure. Hope it helps and offers up good reading to anyone in a similar predicament. But then again, where did this thread start? U joints?... Oh well, into the archives!