TLDR: Scrub radius can be impacted by tire size, suspension, and alignment such that it causes more bump steer, pulling, and kickback in the steering.
It may be a combination of a few things:
- By going one size up to 285/65R18, the optimal offset changes from the stock +60mm offset built into the the wheels, to +50mm. Though this should be close enough.
- Large lifts change geometry too and can cause some of the things you're experiencing. I assume it's lifted about 2.5"? Do you have UCAs to bring back some caster lost from the lift?
- Too much spring rate can also cause more forces to be projected into the steering. Soften the preload if you can, but may also want to air down more if you haven't?
- May want to check alignment as caster and camber can help or exacerbate some of the other issues.