The injector pressure will almost certainly be different between the 4B and 14B pump. Not sure one will work on the other. IDI and DI are quite different.
Regarding the electronics; you might be able to just ignore the ECM. It's possible it's just monitoring the engine to control emissions equipment like EGR etc. For example the Hilux 2LT-II engine is a mechanical injection motor, but has a small ECM with a bunch of sensors on the motor just for controlling emissions. All that emissions stuff can be removed and the motor will run just fine.
Can you take some pictures of the motor and post them here?
Now I had no idea that the injection pressures were different, I will have to check that now, thanks for that.
I'm adding a few pics, Of the pump itself and of the engine already in place.