Ok so here was the decided fix. Do ya'll see any reasons why it won't work or will harm anything?
I cleaned (denatured alcohol) the boot and clamp from Pfran and couldn't get enough grip to keep the clamp from just slipping off the end of the boot due to the lip being torn that normally seats it.
I looked into safety wire but just didn't feel I could get it tight enough and wanted to try the attached before going that route as I think to hold it would most likely cut the soft rubber.
so, what I did was tighten a clamp on the boot until the point where it normally slips off upon further tightening, then I put a second clamp in board of the boot against the metal shaft. I got it TIGHT and when I then went back to the boot clamp to tighten it it snugged up nicely because instead of sliding off the end it ran into the secondary clamp and the 2 clamps pinched the boot lip between them.
Time will tell if it works but thought I would post up my idiot move ruining that rubber lip and how I fixed it.
also the idea of moving the clamp further out on the boot doesn't work because you need all that slack to turn sharply or to drop a tire down or up off roading.